十件你生命中无能为力的事（看了你会放开很多）

    如果你幸运的看到了这篇文章，那么你将是真的很幸运！因为生活中，并不是只要努力就什么都可以的，不只是你，我们都一样，这篇文章是写给那些正处于烦恼，迷茫中的人，看了这生命中无能为力的十件事后，相信你会懂得很多，放开很多，得到很多！真的！ 希望每个看到的人都能够过得开心，幸福！

1 离你而去的人

    离你远去的人，是他失去了你，不是你失去了他。离开，也许是为了下个路口的更好的重逢。
“离开，生命中注定了太多的离开。”

2 流逝的时间

     时间比水流失的还要快，所以想做的事情就去努力，
人这辈子，至少自己得对得起自己。
“人生在世，俯仰之间，自当追求卓越，但有尽其所能。”

3 倒向你的墙
    也许这面倒向你的墙，让你无法呼吸，也许会让你失去一切，但是如果沉默的接受，那么，倒向你的

还是那面墙， 如果你挺起肩膀，抬起头来你会发现很多事情不是向我们想象的那么糟。
“永远不要后退，退到最后无路可退。”

4 没有选择的出身

   有人天生的就是王，有人天生的就是贵族，但是很多人天生的就是平凡，这个世界上，没有什么不可以改变的东西，尤其你想改变的话。
“追求一切美好的过程是人生珍贵的财富”

5 莫名其妙的孤独

   不管达观还是拘谨，无论高贵还是卑微，谁都可能相遇孤独的感觉，常常深深地萦绕在不为人所知的寂寞的情怀中。

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6无可救药的喜欢

     一种很甜的毒药，戒不掉的东西，但喜欢终究是喜欢，不是爱。
“人，一辈子注定了被好多人喜欢，也喜欢好多人。但是选择只有一个。并要终于这个选择。
　爱，又有几个人足够幸运，能够在有生之年，正确的时间，遇到真爱呢？……”  

7 无可奈何的遗忘

     很多我们以为一辈子都不会忘记的事情，就在我们念念不忘的日子里，被我们遗忘了。
　人生总是因为有回忆，而多了分美好。
偶尔的回忆胜过永远的想念。毕竟日子是会越来越好的。

8 永远的过去

     一秒就成为了下一秒的过去，既然很多东西注定要失去的，那么，我们唯一可以做到的就是不轻易忘记。 “读过一句话--当你总是缅怀过去的时候，证明你现在过的并不好。所以，美好的回忆可以，但绝不留恋。要永远憧憬，永远在现在努力。”

9 别人的嘲笑
    嘴长在别人的身上，耳朵在自己身上，说不说，是他们的事情，听不听，是你自己的事情了,我们要学会微笑的面对这一切。“不必去理会……”

10 不可避免的死亡

   生命是个过程，死亡只是必然的结果,但轨迹是自己的色彩和温度，既然不可避免，那么就更无所畏
惧“真的希望人是有灵魂的，不要一切皆为虚幻。”
　生活中，并不是努力就一定什么都可以。
　很多时候，我们也会觉得自己无能为力。
　不只是你，也不只是我，大家都一样。
　知道时间不可能停留，就没有必要伤春悲秋。
知道感情不可能刻意，就不会为了谁寻死觅活。
知道遗忘总是必然的，就不会为一时的忘却伤感。
知道过去始终是存在的，就没有必要遮掩和炫耀。
知道孤独总是如影随形的，就不会在某一些时刻难以自制。
知道死亡总是在将来的某一刻，就能好好把握现在能做好的。
知道这些，就不必勉强为难自己，心放开了，就什么都好了。
心放淡一点，再淡一点，没有那么多给自己设置的心结，心境也就平和了